Mother understood the problem of Bini and told him that again he was
deviating from his goal of clearing his exams with flying colors. He was
again not concentrating in his studies instead he was bothered to
please his friends. Her mother told him that friends are important in
life but not on the cost of his studies and Career.
She further added that if he knew that he was right then once he could talk to his friend Ramesh and try to put forward his point of view in front of him. If he understood his point then it would be great but still if he could not understood his point of view then he needs to come back and leave him on his own. It could be quite possible that after sometime Arvind understood his point of view and came back for friendship again.
As in my earlier blog “Life gives us the lessons to learn” Mother told him one story to make her Point clear. She told the story of the man and his son who went in the market to buy the donkey. They bought the donkey and all three were walking then suddenly one passerby commented that both of them were foolish as they could ride on the back of a donkey and could easily reach their home. Father then asked his son to ride on the donkey after the distance of half a mile,two passerby saw them and started a conversation between them that young people do not care for elder people as that boy was riding while his poor old father was walking by his side.
On hearing that conversation father asked his son to get down and he mounted on the donkey. After covering a distance about a mile, they met two ladies who told the father that how he could let his poor boy walk when he looked so tired, and he was riding like a king. Again they started walking then they met two people who were conversing between them how could the lazy father was riding while his son was walking. So, the boy got onto the donkey too. As they went on, they met some travelers who told them that they were very cruel and they would kill the poor donkey. On hearing that, the father and the son got down. Now they decided to carry the donkey on their shoulders. As they did so, the travelers broke into laughter. The laughter frightened the donkey.He broke free and galloped away.
Bini laughed and understood the moral of the story that one person cannot please everybody. One should not bother for the unnecessary comments. If one... Read More
She further added that if he knew that he was right then once he could talk to his friend Ramesh and try to put forward his point of view in front of him. If he understood his point then it would be great but still if he could not understood his point of view then he needs to come back and leave him on his own. It could be quite possible that after sometime Arvind understood his point of view and came back for friendship again.
As in my earlier blog “Life gives us the lessons to learn” Mother told him one story to make her Point clear. She told the story of the man and his son who went in the market to buy the donkey. They bought the donkey and all three were walking then suddenly one passerby commented that both of them were foolish as they could ride on the back of a donkey and could easily reach their home. Father then asked his son to ride on the donkey after the distance of half a mile,two passerby saw them and started a conversation between them that young people do not care for elder people as that boy was riding while his poor old father was walking by his side.
On hearing that conversation father asked his son to get down and he mounted on the donkey. After covering a distance about a mile, they met two ladies who told the father that how he could let his poor boy walk when he looked so tired, and he was riding like a king. Again they started walking then they met two people who were conversing between them how could the lazy father was riding while his son was walking. So, the boy got onto the donkey too. As they went on, they met some travelers who told them that they were very cruel and they would kill the poor donkey. On hearing that, the father and the son got down. Now they decided to carry the donkey on their shoulders. As they did so, the travelers broke into laughter. The laughter frightened the donkey.He broke free and galloped away.
Bini laughed and understood the moral of the story that one person cannot please everybody. One should not bother for the unnecessary comments. If one... Read More
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