Life gives us the lessons to learn from our mistakes in our life. The very next question is how?
Everybody makes mistakes in life but, there is the difference between the successful and failure person. Successful person is quick to learn from the mistakes and failure person does not learn from the mistakes instead they tend to repeat the same mistakes. Thus, life gives us opportunity of growth by the process of trial & error and exploration. This kind of learning is called Experimental Learning.
The starting of experimental learning is from school. Many students are reluctant to go to school. Students generally give different kind of excuses to miss school. Parents must explain their children politely but firmly.
One incident narrated here will help you to understand better:-
One day mother found her son Bini was not getting up. Mother was worried that he would be late for school. She repeatedly asked him to get ready for school. Bini told her that he did not like to attend school as neither any student in his class nor his teachers liked him. Mother replied Bini that he should not bother about the opinion of the other people about him. He should concentrate in his studies and always ready to learn from his mistakes. She further added once he should regularly attend school and concentrate in his studies to get good marks, everybody would start liking him. She said that he could not afford to miss the school as it provides the opportunity to learn by experiment. It would make him understand that situation could not be changed, but he only has to change himself to improve himself. He should attend school and face the situation with a positive frame of mind. He should take the comments in a positive way and work on it. For example, his Mathematics teacher commented that he was very poor in Mathematics. He should not take it in a negative way instead practice hard to prove his teacher wrong. This way school would give him lot of situations to make him better person and he could face the world in a better way.
The mother then told one story that there was the boy whose name was Devendra. He was a dull boy. He was abused by his peer group daily. He was so upset that he did not like to go to school and started disliking studies. When his results were out as expected he flunked. Arvind came home and showed his result. His parents were worried then they decided they would visit their village for the change. When they reached their village, they saw one well where one lady was taking out water. Arvind 's mother told his son that he could observe that repeated motion of a soft rope over the hard stone... Read More
Everybody makes mistakes in life but, there is the difference between the successful and failure person. Successful person is quick to learn from the mistakes and failure person does not learn from the mistakes instead they tend to repeat the same mistakes. Thus, life gives us opportunity of growth by the process of trial & error and exploration. This kind of learning is called Experimental Learning.
The starting of experimental learning is from school. Many students are reluctant to go to school. Students generally give different kind of excuses to miss school. Parents must explain their children politely but firmly.
One incident narrated here will help you to understand better:-
One day mother found her son Bini was not getting up. Mother was worried that he would be late for school. She repeatedly asked him to get ready for school. Bini told her that he did not like to attend school as neither any student in his class nor his teachers liked him. Mother replied Bini that he should not bother about the opinion of the other people about him. He should concentrate in his studies and always ready to learn from his mistakes. She further added once he should regularly attend school and concentrate in his studies to get good marks, everybody would start liking him. She said that he could not afford to miss the school as it provides the opportunity to learn by experiment. It would make him understand that situation could not be changed, but he only has to change himself to improve himself. He should attend school and face the situation with a positive frame of mind. He should take the comments in a positive way and work on it. For example, his Mathematics teacher commented that he was very poor in Mathematics. He should not take it in a negative way instead practice hard to prove his teacher wrong. This way school would give him lot of situations to make him better person and he could face the world in a better way.
The mother then told one story that there was the boy whose name was Devendra. He was a dull boy. He was abused by his peer group daily. He was so upset that he did not like to go to school and started disliking studies. When his results were out as expected he flunked. Arvind came home and showed his result. His parents were worried then they decided they would visit their village for the change. When they reached their village, they saw one well where one lady was taking out water. Arvind 's mother told his son that he could observe that repeated motion of a soft rope over the hard stone... Read More
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