German professor's denied the admission to Indian boy for Intership

A professor in Germany has denied the admission to the Indian boy by stating the reason that She could not allow the boy from the country where there is a lot of rape problem. She had many female students in her university, so she could not support him.

These remarks ignited an uproar in India after she refused an internship to a male Indian student, citing the reason of  "rape culture" in India. The letter went viral on social media with students condemning the act. Later, the professor apologised.

Now in my point of view, though professor did totally wrong by labelling male community as rapist and presented her myopic view. It can lead to the adverse reactions for other host nations where Indian students went for pursuing their career opportunities.

Although the professor's decision is unjustified but she reserve the right to deny any student.
Whole incident give the message for India that the rape problem must be addressed as soon as possible.
Just uproaring on the issue will not solve the problem. We have to accept the problem and try to change our mindset to change the mindset of others for India. 

In India many men are psychopath, they rape and doesn't have iota of respect or love for women.
The reason lies is in the traditional patriarchal culture. Where Mothers generally question girls why she was late but rarely ask her son that why he was late. There is need to give moral values to the their son.

The grandparents are still not happy with a granddaughter, they still need a son for carrying the name of their family forward. Here also there is a need to change the mindset that boys and girls both are equal. Girls can also bring laurels for the family and we have seen many instances, no need to mention about it... Read More

Is girl is responsible for her death in Nirbhaya gang-rape case?

16, December 2012, the horrific night for the 23-year-old girl who had been to see a film, the Life of Pi, with her male friend. On that day at 8.30 PM, they boarded an off-duty bus, with six men on board, five adults and a juvenile. Firstly, the men beat the girl's male friend, and each male raped the woman in turn. The girl raised the alarm, so furiously rapist was assaulting her viciously with an iron instrument.

According to one of rapist accused in gang-rape case, that the girl was responsible for the rape as she was boarding the bus late in the night. After that if she was raped she should not raise the alarm. If she quietly accepted the rape, they would not assaulted her.

He further said that girls are more responsible for the rape than the boys. Girls are there only for housework and housekeeping, not roaming in discos and bars at night doing wrong things, wearing wrong clothes.

Nearly 20% of girls are good. His lawyer added that if girls in his family remain out late in the night or engaged in pre-marital activities and disgraced herself, he... Read More

Six Steps to beat the addiction

Addiction is the repeating the same thing or the activity again & again to the level that one becomes habitual. The addiction can be of anything such as drugs, alcohol, T.V., mobile games, using social networking sites & apps, music, eating sweets or any other types of addiction.

1) Self Talk

Talk to yourself that whether this addiction can help to give an answer to your depression, anxiety, pain & stress. Preferably you can sit & write down the following points:

•  Poor Life state
•  Deterioration of health
•  The embarrassment caused by addiction
•  Bad effect on your relationship 

2) Use substitute for the addiction

You can use a substitute for the addicted thing or activity; you want to divert your mind. Remember the alternative you are planning to use is not leading towards another addiction. For example, one boy was a chain smoker; he substituted smoking with the green tea. Whenever he felt the craving for smoking, he took green tea instead of cigarettes. Similarly, you can also think of some alternative to giving a breakaway to addiction.

3) Make changes in your daily routine

You have to make the changes in the daily routine. For example, start exercising and if possible take out some time to play with children or play any instrument. Make sure that your surrounding people are not disturbed by it... Read More

Chanakya – Chapter Three

1. In this world, is there any family who is without any blame? Is there anyone who is without any sickness and grief? Is there anyone who remain happy always?

2. A man's background may recognize by his conduct, his country by the way he speaks his language, his friendship by his affection and glow, and his ability to eat by his body.

3. Marry your daughter in a good family, encourage your son in learning, take care of your enemy when in grief, and connect your friends towards divinity.

4. Of a scoundrel and a snake, the snake is the better of the two, for he only strike at the time he decide to kill, while the former at every step.

5. Kings must gather with counsellors of good families, as they never leave them either at the start, the middle or the end.

6. At the time of the universal destruction, the oceans exceed their limits and seek to change, but a holy man never changes.

7. If one keeps company with a fool, he can realize that he is with a two-legged beast. He pierces the heart with his sharp words that can be compared as unseen thorn.

8. No matter man is born in a noble family and has youth and beauty, yet without education, he is like the palas flower, which does not have a sweet scent.

9. The attraction of a cuckoo is her notes, that of a woman in her undiluted loyalty to her husband, that of an unattractive person in his scholarship, and that of an austere in his forgiveness.

10. Sacrifice a member to save your family, a family to save your village, a village to save your country, and the country to save yourself.

11. There is no poverty for the hard-working. Sin does not append to the person who chant the holy names of the Almighty. Those who are absorbed in meditation have no quarrel with others. Who always remain alert are fearless.

12.-13.
There is no article heavy for the strong and no place is distant for those who lay effort. There is no country remain foreign to a man who believe in true learning. No one can oppose who speaks pleasingly.

14. A family becomes famous by the birth of a virtuous son, as a whole forest becomes fragrant by the existence of a single tree with sweet-smelling blossoms in it.

15. As a single withered tree, if burned, causes a whole forest to burn, so does a scoundrel son defames a whole family... Read More